By Sharon Brock, MEd, MS

Millions of Americans share a similar experience every morning. The alarm goes off, but they’ve already been awake for hours in bed. They hit the snooze button to squeeze in a few more minutes of precious rest, not realizing they were making their sleep problems worse.

“Hitting the snooze button is one of the worst things you can do because it prolongs morning grogginess and associates the bed with being awake,” says Fiona Barwick, PhD, DBSM, Stanford Clinical Associate Professor, Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences – Sleep Medicine. “Rather than hitting snooze, it’s important to get out of bed within 15 minutes of the alarm going off and get some natural light to stop melatonin production.”

You may not think that something you do first thing in the morning will affect your sleep that night; however, Dr. Barwick says that the behaviors we engage with throughout the day can impact the quality of our sleep at night.

“Getting a good night’s sleep is a 24-hour endeavor,” says Dr. Barwick.

How Does Sleep Work?

According to Dr. Barwick, we fall asleep when these three biological systems are in working order:

  • Circadian Rhythm (CR)
  • Sleep Drive (SD)
  • Stress Management (SM)

 

Here is a list of behaviors that can negatively affect the three systems (CR, SD, SM), as well as alternative behaviors that have a more positive impact:

Since it may be difficult to change all the behaviors in this table, Dr. Barwick shares the top two behaviors that are most important for each system:

  • Circadian Rhythm
  1. Sleeping in the right window for your body clock (e.g., 10pm – 6am, 11pm – 7am, or 12am – 8am, etc.) and staying consistent with those sleep and wake times.
  2. Appropriate exposure to light and darkness to sync the release of melatonin with wake and sleep times (e.g., getting morning sunlight, not looking at screens one hour before bed, and making sure the bedroom is dark).
  • Sleep Drive
  1. Increase sleep drive by tiring the body with regular physical exercise and outdoor light exposure.
  2. Getting out of bed promptly (no hitting the snooze button) and making sure you spend the appropriate amount of time in bed (anywhere from 6-10 hours depending on your individual genetics and age).
  • Stress Management
  1. Physical relaxation—Deep breathing throughout the day to relax the body.
  2. Mental/Emotional relaxation—mindfulness meditation or journaling to process emotions before going to bed.

Practice of the Month:

Avoid hitting snooze (i.e., get out of bed when the alarm goes off) and create morning, midday, and evening routines to optimize the three key systems for sleep.

From the table above, write two behaviors you can do in the morning, midday, and at night. Make sure that you’re addressing all three systems (CR, SD, and SM).

What to do in the morning for good sleep:

1)

2)

What to do during the day for good sleep:

1)

2)

What to do at night for good sleep:

1)

2)

Here is a sample:

What to do in the morning for good sleep:

1)  Put phone out of arm’s reach and get out of bed right after alarm goes off (CR, SD).

2)  Go for a walk around the block, then eat breakfast (CR, SD).

What to do during the day for good sleep:

1)  Stress reduction: do a 10-minute mindfulness meditation at lunch (SM).

2) Physical exercise: do a 45-minute workout right after work (SD, SM).

What to do at night for good sleep:

1) Turn off all screens one hour before bed and write in my journal while listening to relaxing music (CR, SM).

2) Take a luxurious candle-lit bubble bath while taking deep breaths and counting my blessings (CR, SM).

“These are behaviors we can do to increase the likelihood of getting better sleep, but there may be times when we do everything right and still not sleep well,” says Dr. Barwick. “The most important thing to remember is that we will be fine the next day. We are evolutionarily adapted to deal with insufficient sleep, and we can still do what we need to get done, even without the full amount of sleep that we normally get.”

By Mary Grace Descourouez, MS, NBC-HWC and Sharon Brock, MEd, MS

Many of us have heard that looking at our phones or iPads at night can keep us awake due to light exposure, however, research shows this may be true for children, but there is not sufficient evidence to support this claim for adults.

“Young children have a greater sensitivity to light because more light gets to the retina of a child than an adult,” says Jamie Zeitzer, PhD, Co-Director of the Stanford Center for Sleep and Circadian Sciences. “Since adults have more opacities in their eyes and smaller pupils than children, less light passes through adult eyes, so there’s less of an effect on melatonin production.”

Melatonin is a hormone that makes us feel sleepy and is released when the eyes perceive darkness. Conversely, when we see natural light in the morning, we feel more awake because light hitting our eyes stops the production of melatonin.

Given this logic, it would seem reasonable that looking at our screens (smart phones, computers, iPads, etc.) at night could delay melatonin production and inhibit our ability to fall asleep, but Dr. Zeitzer says this is not the case.

While darkness enables melatonin production, suppressing melatonin production works by the brain comparing the amount of light we receive during at night with how much we received during the day. It’s the shift from light to dark that cues the release of melatonin, which is why we start to feel sleepy after the sun goes down.

Since natural sunlight emits 10,000-100,000 lux of light and phone screens emit 25-50 lux under usual conditions at night, Dr. Zeitzer says the light from our screens doesn’t have much of an impact on the melatonin cueing process.

“There just isn’t that much light coming from your phone,” says Dr. Zeitzer. “As long as you go outside during the day and get exposed to the intensity of natural light then the amount of light from a screen in the evening most likely won’t halt the production of melatonin.”

If it’s Not Light, What Keeps us Up at Night?

Rather than light exposure, Dr. Zeitzer believes that what is keeping us awake is what we are watching on our screens. Millions of Americans stay awake at night scrolling on social media looking at page after page of emotionally activating content and writing posts that lead to likes, comments, and followers. Others stay up to play games on their phones or computers, all of which stimulate the dopamine reward system in the brain, which is the basis of addictive behaviors.

“In the past, when a television show ended, you turned off the TV and went to sleep because there was nothing else to do,” says Dr. Zeitzer. “But now you could watch Netflix, look at apps or play computer games all night because this entertainment has been commodified to engaged with it for as long as possible; it’s optimized to never stop playing and this is causing sleep deprivation.”

When watching screens before bed, Dr. Zeitzer recommends that we not only avoid content that could be distressing, but also content that could stir excitement within us.

“In order to fall asleep, we need to reduce stimuli exposure and calm our mind and body,” says Dr. Zeitzer. “Even if you’re watching something positive, if it stirs excitement, the brain will release dopamine, and over time we can develop a dopamine addiction, making staying awake playing games or on social media much more fun that going to sleep.”

Lastly, Dr. Zeitzer says that he can’t make a general statement that nighttime screen use negatively affects everyone’s sleep. For some, their addiction to games or apps could make falling asleep a challenge, while others may watch soothing nature videos on their phones to help them relax and fall asleep. Therefore, Dr. Zeitzer suggests that you take note of how screens are impacting your sleep health by asking yourself these questions:

  • Is the content of your screen time making you feel distressed or excited? If yes, then you should not look at screens for about an hour before bedtime to calm the mind and body and prepare for sleep.
  • Also, do you engage with screens throughout the night when you could be sleeping? If so, you may have a dopamine addiction that is making screen time activities more enjoyable than sleep.

By Sharon Brock, MEd, MS

Not getting enough restorative sleep is a rampant health concern across the US. It’s estimated that 50 to 70 million Americans suffer from sleep disorders, and 1 in 3 adults do not get the recommended 7 to 8 hours of sleep regularly.

Many of us have tried sleep hygiene techniques, such as keeping our bedroom dark, cool, and quiet and having a one-hour-before-bed evening routine, but still have trouble sleeping soundly on a consistent basis.

Stanford sleep specialist Fiona Barwick, PhD, DBSM shares that sleep hygiene is only one piece of the puzzle.  “If you have good sleep and maintain good sleep hygiene, then you’ll continue to get good sleep,” says Dr. Barwick, Stanford Clinical Associate Professor, Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences – Sleep Medicine. “But if you have poor sleep, all the sleep hygiene in the world will not help because it’s not targeting what we typically see in patients with insomnia, which is anxious thinking and not building enough sleep drive.”

What Causes Insomnia?

Insomnia is defined as difficulty falling asleep, staying asleep, or waking up too early (greater than 30 minutes before the alarm) three times per week for at least three months. Many factors can cause insomnia, such as stressors related to one’s job, finances, health, family and friends, new onset health conditions, or feeling unsafe in one’s environment.

Dr. Barwick says her patients with insomnia often spend hours lying awake, ruminating about relationships and events in their lives, or simply worrying about how their inability to sleep will impact their performance the next day (especially true for perfectionists). To address these factors, Dr. Barwick teaches classes on cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) at Stanford University.

“It’s a vicious cycle. The anxiety we feel about not sleeping can prevent us from falling and staying asleep,” says Dr. Barwick. “With CBT-I, we address not only the physical requirements of sleep but also how we think and feel about sleep. CBT-I helps to shift our mindset about sleep.”

 

This table shows the difference between sleep hygiene and CBT-I:

How to Cure Insomnia with CBT-I Training

CBT-I employs a classical conditioning technique of having patients get out of bed when not sleeping so that they associate their bed with sleep and nothing else. Just as Pavlovian dogs salivated when they heard a bell, Dr. Barwick says we can teach our brains to see our bed as a cue to feeling sleepy and falling asleep rather than a place where we lie awake feeling anxious.

Along with bed re-association, another technique for improving sleep is sleep consolidation, or shortening the time spent in bed. At the outset of treatment, students of the CBT-I course are instructed to reduce the amount of time they spend in bed (their “sleep opportunity”) and get out of bed promptly when the alarm goes off (no hitting snooze!), regardless of how they slept. As wakefulness at night decreases and sleep quality improves, time in bed, or sleep opportunity, is gradually extended.

This disciplined approach of spending a shorter amount of time in bed for two to three weeks increases sleep drive and thus sleepiness, or the desire to sleep. By the end of treatment, patients are falling asleep more easily, waking up less at night, and returning to sleep more easily. They have also ensured that their bed is re-associated with sleep, rather than lying awake worrying, thus breaking the pattern of insomnia.

Along with bed re-association, CBT-I also offers cognitive strategies to calm anxious thoughts about sleep, relaxation techniques to reduce tension in the body, as well as emotional relaxation practices like mindfulness.

How Do I Fix My Sleep Problems?

Ironically, anxiety about sleep is often the cause of our sleep problems, making stress management an important part of restorative sleep. Dr. Barwick says that “our mindset about sleep is critical. We are worrying about a system that is not broken.” Instead of anxiety about sleep, Dr. Barwick encourages us to learn about the biological systems involved in sleep and optimize them with our behaviors.

The three biological systems that need to be in working order for sleep to occur are:

  • Circadian rhythm
  • Sleep drive
  • Stress management

“The way sleep works is, when your sleep drive is high, you understand your own circadian sleep-wake timing, and you allow yourself to relax, you should fall asleep and return to sleep easily,” says Dr. Barwick. “These biological systems of sleep are not broken; they are intact, but our worry about sleep can override their ability to function properly.”

For practical tips on how to optimize these three systems, read our blog, “Don’t Hit Snooze! And Other Practical Tips for Optimal Sleep.” 

What to Do When Lying Awake in the Night

If you’re lying awake in bed during the night, the first step is not to check the time. This can lead to anxious thoughts about how your lack of sleep will affect you the next day. It’s best not to look at the clock and trust that you’ll wake up and get out of bed with your alarm.

Secondly, take deep breaths and engage in mindfulness practices, such as feeling the softness of your pillow and appreciating the comfort of your mattress. Listening to gentle music or a guided meditation can also help relax the mind and body.

If these relaxation practices do not lull you back to sleep and you’ve been wide awake for over 30 minutes, Dr. Barwick suggests getting out of bed and doing a relaxing activity in another room until you feel sleepy again.

“It’s best to keep your bed for sleep, so if you can’t fall back asleep, be awake outside your bed in an enjoyable and relaxing way, such as reading a book in the living room,” says Dr. Barwick. “While reading, you build sleep drive and calm anxiety, so you’re more likely to fall asleep when you go back to bed.”

Another thing to remember is that your middle-of-the-night thinking comes from your emotional brain. During sleep, the rational part of your brain is offline, leaving your emotions to run unchecked. This can lead to bizarre dreams and even nightmares that could wake you up, especially if you’re going through stressful circumstances.

To address this, Dr. Barwick recommends reducing stress throughout the day, not just right before bed.

“People with anxiety are more reactive to stress and need to address sleep as a 24-hour endeavor,” says Dr. Barwick. “They need to put more effort into managing their stress response with exercise, deep breaths, and mindfulness throughout the day–not just before bed.”

Dr. Barwick explains that when we first go to sleep, our sleep drive is high enough to counter our stress level. But if we wake up 3-4 hours later, when sleep drive has diminished, it is harder to fall back asleep, especially if our emotional brain begins to ruminate from stress built up throughout the day. And since the rational part of the brain is offline, these negative thoughts can take over our consciousness.

Therefore, Dr. Barwick recommends journaling before bed to reframe life challenges and process difficult emotions. This way, if you wake up at night, you’ll be able to fall back asleep easily.

Along with journaling before bed, Dr. Barwick has a second recommendation for those experiencing anger that often leads to the rehearsal of mental arguments during the night.

“If you have resentment, I recommend you do loving-kindness meditation before bed. You can offer loving-kindness toward those whom your ego believes has ‘wronged’ you,” says Dr. Barwick. “This meditation can shift your emotional mindset from anger to ease, which will help you fall asleep.”

By Nicole Molumphy

Many of you are familiar with the 10,000-steps-a-day walking trend, but you may not know where it originated. The idea of walking 10,000 steps per day did not come from scientific research; rather, it came from a marketing campaign for a pedometer ahead of the 1964 Tokyo Olympics. Since the Japanese symbol for 10,000 looks somewhat similar to a person walking (see image below), the pedometer was named Manpo-kei or 10,000 steps meter, and the 10,000-step-a-day walking trend was born.

 

 

We know walking is good for us, but what do researchers have to say about this 10,000 number? Is this the right number of steps? What are the health benefits of reaching this number?

A 2023 research study showed 8,000 to be the sufficient number of steps to yield significant health benefits. In this study, participants who took 8,000 steps or more on one or two days during the week showed substantially lower cardiovascular and all-cause mortality risk.

Stanford Lifestyle Medicine Movement and Exercise pillar member Corey Rovzar, PhD, DPT, puts the 8 and 10 thousand numbers into perspective. “What is more important than hitting an exact number is that you’re moving more throughout the day,” says Dr. Rovzar. “If looking at a pedometer and trying to hit 8,000 steps will help you move more, then it’s a great tool, but rather than fixating on an exact step count, I recommend you think about your day and envision opportunities to move.”

Rather than walking all 8,000 steps in one go, which would take about 80 minutes at three miles per hour, Dr. Rovzar recommends walking the 8,000 steps throughout the day, such as in the morning and evening and after each meal. For example, you could split the 8,000 steps (80 minutes of walking) into four, 20-minute walks. If you stick to the 10,000-step goal (100 minutes of walking), that breaks down to five, 20-minute walks. This recommendation is good news for those who sit at a desk since taking several short walks during the workday is a perfect way to take a break. “It is important to note that all steps count! Even a few steps to the bathroom or to another room contributes to this overall count,” says Dr. Rovzar.

Ideas on How to Meet Your 10,000 Steps Goal:

  • Take the stairs instead of the elevator.
  • Walk more during errands by parking your car farther away from your destination or getting off the bus or train a stop early.
  • Walk more during your work day by taking a “walking meeting” or walking while on the phone.
  • Walking after each meal can help with digestion, blood sugar management, and cardiovascular health.
  • Walk every morning, evening, and during your lunch break. Even 10 to 15 minutes of walking can add up to 1,000 steps.
  • Catch up with a friend by going on a walk instead of meeting for coffee.
  • Use a step tracker to help you stay motivated and track your progress.

How to Get More Out of Your 10,000 Steps

If you’re already walking 8 to 10 thousand steps daily, you may be ready to take your walking to the next level. If so, Dr. Rovzar recommends adding modifiers to your walking routine to help you meet additional fitness goals, such as improving balance or building muscle.

Here are a few of Dr. Rovzar’s recommendations for intensifying your daily stroll and gaining more health benefits:

1) Cardiovascular (Endurance) Modifier:

Interval walking

Interval walking involves alternating fast and slow walking cycles. Researchers recommend five intervals of fast and slow phases, each lasting roughly three minutes. The effort expended should be 40 percent of your maximum effort for the slow phase and 70 percent for the fast phase.

2) Muscular Strength Modifiers:

Walk up and down hills or stairs multiple times

If you are looking for strength benefits, hills may become your new best friend. Walking hills or stairs not only has excellent aerobic benefits but also serves as a great form of strength training.

Add ankle and wrist weights or wear a weighted backpack

Another strength training modification is adding weight to your walk, either with ankle or wrist weights or by rucking. The term rucking originated during boot camp training and involves using weighted vests or backpacks while hiking or walking.

3) Balance Modifiers:

Take side steps

March (i.e., lift your knees as you walk)

Walk backwards

It is essential to perform balancing exercises as we age. Implementing side steps, marching, or walking backward are great ways to train your body to handle non-forward-facing movements, enhance joint mobility, and improve flexibility. Balance training is also an effective way to strengthen different muscle groups. For example, side steps engage your abductors, which are hip muscles involved in getting out of your car and transitioning out of bed in the morning.

4) Cognition Modifier:

Dual-task training

Cognition may also be enhanced with walking practices, like dual-task training. This practice involves performing a mental task while walking, such as talking to someone while walking, keeping step time to a metronome, or counting backward from 100. Combining the mental task with the physical action of walking forces the walker to increase concentration, which sharpens the mind and improves balance and stability.

Whole Body Health Benefits

In addition to the physical benefits walking offers, Dr. Rovzar says that walking improves mental clarity and well-being. Taking a step away from work and going on an outdoor walk can help you overcome mental roadblocks. Studies have found mental health benefits from walking outside in nature, including decreased cortisol levels, diastolic and systolic blood pressure, and pulse rate. While using a treadmill may be a great way to multitask and get in extra movement, there are considerable mental health benefits from taking a break outside, getting fresh air, and stopping to smell roses and pet dogs on your walk.

“We often strive to maximize our time working, but in reality, you might not be saving yourself time by omitting the breaks,” says Dr. Rovzar. “I recommend getting out of your work environment and going for an outdoor walk every couple of hours during the workday, even if it’s just five-minutes of movement to get your blood flowing.”

Practice of the Month:

Walk 5 Days per Week for 30 minutes with a Modifier

The US guideline for moderate physical activity is 150 minutes per week (which breaks down to five 30-minute brisk walks with a modifier per week). To ensure you’re improving muscle strength, balance, endurance, and cognition every week, Dr. Rovzar recommends assigning different modifiers to different days.

Sample Walking Routine (30 minutes per walk):

Monday: Walking up and down hills on Mondays (endurance)

Tuesday: Rucking (strength)

Wednesday: Incorporating intervals of side-stepping, marching, and walking backward (balance)

Thursday: Interval walking (endurance)

Friday: Adding ankle and wrist weights (strength) while counting backward from 100 with each step (cognition)

 

If a 30-minute walk seems too daunting, Dr. Rovzar suggests starting with 10 minutes of walking and incrementally working your way up to 30 minutes daily. “Much of this comes down to goal setting,” she says. “If you set too lofty of a goal, it becomes unachievable, but if you break your goal down to an amount that seems feasible and perhaps try it just for a week, it becomes more likely you will remain consistent in attaining it.”

By Mary Grace Descourouez, MS, NBC-HWC

 

We all know about the Olympic Decathlon (ten track and field events held across two consecutive days), but have you heard about the Centenarian Decathlon?

Stanford alumni Peter Attia, MD, coined the term Centenarian Decathlon as the ten physical tasks you want to be able to do at age 100 (or in the final decade of life).

Everyone’s list is likely different, but the following is Dr. Attia’s personal list from his book Outlive. The list includes both common exercises as well as functional movements and lifestyle actions that most of us take for granted in middle age.

Dr. Peter Attia’s Centenarian Decathlon:

  1. Hike 1.5 miles on a hilly trail
  2. Get up off the floor using a maximum of one arm for support
  3. Pick up a 30-pound child from the floor
  4. Carry two five-pound bags of groceries for five block.
  5. Lift a 20-pound suitcase into the overhead compartment of a plane
  6. Balance on one leg for 30 seconds with eyes open. (Bonus: eyes closed for 15 seconds)
  7. Have sex
  8. Climb four flights of stairs in three minutes
  9. Open a jar
  10. Do thirty consecutive jump-rope skips

“There is a difference between lifespan and healthspan. Lifespan is the number of years you’re on this planet, but healthspan is the number of years that you’re healthy—being able to live independently and partake in activities you enjoy,” says Jonathan Bonnet, MD, MPH, and Clinical Associate (Affiliated) Professor at Stanford University School of Medicine. The Centenarian Decathlon requires a thoughtful analysis of what ‘health’ means for you as you age. Creating a personalized Centenarian Decathlon can serve as a powerful motivator and will help inform what types of exercises need to be done now in order to achieve those goals in the future.”

 Creating your own Centenarian Decathlon

Think about what you value in life. Is it being able to play with kids or grandkids? Traveling? Hiking? Sailing? Creating delicious meals in the kitchen? Identifying what is most important in your life will inform which activities will be on your personal Centenarian Decathlon.

“When creating your list of 10 functional activities, pair them with exercises that cultivate the type of abilities you would need to enjoy the activities you love,” says Dr. Bonnet. “For example, if you want to be able to play with a grandchild, being able to ‘lift 30 pounds from a squat position’ would be a valuable objective, as it would mimic picking up a small child from the floor.”

Here are examples of activities and values for a Centenarian Decathlon.

If you:

  • Enjoy bike rides with your spouse – Ride a bike for 1 hour.
  • Live in the snow and value being independent – Shovel snow off a driveway.
  • Enjoy playing golf with friends – Play 18 holes of golf.
  • Enjoy walking your dog – Walk 10,000 steps in a day.
  • Enjoy international travel – Lift a 20-pound suitcase into the overhead compartment. Climb 30 stairs without stopping.
  • Enjoy cooking – Lift a cast iron skillet with one hand. Carry two five-pound bags of groceries up four flights of stairs. Open a jar.
  • Enjoy being in nature – Hike up a steep hill for 10 minutes, operate a kayak, or whatever your favorite outdoor activity is.
  • Enjoy swimming in a pool – Tread water for 10 minutes. Get out of a pool without a ladder.
  • Enjoy dancing with your family in the kitchen – Perform 30 jumping jacks in one set for aerobic endurance.
  • Enjoy playing with children – Deadlift 30 pounds (to lift a young child from their crib or the floor). Get up off the floor using only one arm for support.

Lastly, it’s important to include activities that meet the following four fitness goals, which are important for healthy aging.

Fitness Goals Important for Healthy Aging:

1) Build muscle strength by doing activities such as:

  • Perform 10 push-ups in one set.
  • Perform 20 squats in one set.
  • Perform 10 bicep curls with 20-pound weights.

2) Cultivate stability, flexibility, mobility, and balance by doing activities such as:

  • Complete 30 minutes of Yoga or Pilates.
  • Walk up and down stairs with feet pointed perfectly forward (this is a sign of good ankle mobility).
  • Do a plank in perfect form for one minute (any core workout).

3) Increase maximal aerobic capacity (i.e., VO2 max or maximum oxygen consumption)

You can increase VO2 max with interval workouts where you give roughly 90 percent effort for a short amount of time (ideally 3-5 minutes), followed by a recovery period. Shorter intervals can be used initially to increase VO2 max, however, the duration of sessions should be increased for optimal results.

Examples include:

  • Perform 30 jumping jacks in 40 seconds, followed by 30-40 second recovery period (work up to repeating 6 times).
  • Perform 3 minutes of stair climbing, followed by a 3-minute recovery (work up to repeating five times).
  • Perform 4 minutes of interval running followed by a 4-minute recovery (work up to repeating)

4) Improve aerobic efficiency

You can improve aerobic efficiency with longer duration, steady state physical activity. These workouts are done at a much lower intensity, where you can hold a conversation, but not sing a song. The absolute intensity will vary depending on fitness, but could include activities, such as:

  • Walking 3-4 miles in 1 hour
  • Jogging for 30 minutes while maintaining a conversation
  • Riding a bike for 45 minutes at a 12-14 mph pace

“Each of these areas is important, though having a high VO2 max will generally allow one to do most things on a Decathlon list. If you can jog, that means you can hike. If you can hike, that means you can walk for three miles. If you can walk for three miles, you can likely go up a flight of stairs, and so on,” says Dr. Bonnet. “It’s not that VO2 max is magical by itself, it’s that it requires a certain amount of strength, stability, and aerobic efficiency to be able to attain a high VO2 max level.”

 

Now, take a moment to make YOUR list of 10 activities you’d like to do when you’re 100 (or in your final decade). Be sure to have a mix of strength, stability, VO2 max, and aerobic efficiency activities. Add a column to the right to note why this activity is valuable to you.

For example, at age 100, I want to:

  • Deadlift at least 50 pounds | in order to pick a suitcase up off the ground
  • Do a body weight step up | in order to be able to get up off the floor unassisted
  • Climb 4 flights of stairs in 3 minutes | in order to walk independently (e.g., hike up a hill, walk up a broken escalator at an airport, etc.) without requiring an elevator or ramp
  • Walk 2 miles in 1 hour | in order to walk my dog every evening

Continue until you’ve reached 10 activities.

Centenarian Decathlon is a Framework for Longevity

Now that you have your list, you need to make a plan regarding how you’re going to achieve the 10 goals listed on your personal Centenarian Decathlon. Since we naturally lose strength and aerobic capacity as we age, whatever it is we want to be able to do at age 100, we need to be doing much more now.

In his book, Dr. Attia writes: “Over the next thirty or forty years, your muscle strength will decline by about 8 to 17 per­cent per decade—accelerating as time goes on. So, if you want to pick up that thirty-pound grandkid or great-grandkid when you’re eighty, you’re going to have to be able to lift about fifty to fifty-five pounds now. Without hurting yourself. Can you do that?”

It’s time to ask ourselves, if we want to attain these 10 goals, what daily actions must we do now to get there?

Look at your list of 10 activities and add a column: What do I need to do now to be able to do this activity at age 100? Include the area of fitness and be sure all four areas are addressed at least once in your list of 10.

Note: a general rule of thumb that can be used to estimate approximate strength loss over 50 years is that the load at age 40 should be roughly 150 percent of what the intended goal is at 90 years old.

For example, at age 100, I want to:

  • Deadlift 30 pounds | in order to pick up a suitcase off the ground | so, now I need to deadlift 75 pounds (muscle strength)
  • Do a body weight step up | in order to be able to get up off the floor unassisted | so, now I need to do a step up holding dumbbells equal to 50 percent of my body weight (stability, balance, flexibility, mobility, muscle strength)
  • Climb 4 flights of stairs in 3 minutes | in order to walk independently (e.g., hike up a hill, walk up a broken escalator at an airport, etc.) without requiring an elevator or ramp | so, now I need to do climb 10 flights of stairs in 3 minutes (VO2 max)
  • Walk 2 miles in 1 hour | in order to walk my dog every evening | so, now I need to walk 5 miles in 1.5 hours two times per week (aerobic efficiency)

Continue until you’ve reached 10 activities.

Revisit this list every five years to update the column: Am I on track? What do I need to do now to be able to do this activity at age 100?

There you have it! Now you have a personalized framework for longevity and a specific pathway to win your very own Centenarian Decathlon. Be sure to take out this list on your 100th birthday and try out each activity!

“Having a personalized Centenarian Decathlon is valuable because it translates activities that matter most to you into tangible metrics that can be tracked over time,” says Dr. Bonnet. “While we may not be competing for a gold medal at the Olympics, the Centenarian Decathlon promises something better. A lifetime of being able to do the things we love with the people (and pets) that matter most.”

By Yasaman Nourkhalaj

We all enjoy a healthy snack like nuts and fruits or a less nutritious option like chips and sweets between our main meals, but have you ever heard of an exercise snack?

“Exercise snacks are short bouts of movements, anywhere from 30 seconds to five minutes, that don’t require going to the gym or any prep work. They are snacks, not meals,” says Marily Oppezzo, PhD, certified personal trainer and head of Stanford Lifestyle Medicine Healthful Nutrition pillar. “They can be anything that gets your heart rate up to a vigorous level–like jogging up the stairs at work or doing 20 jumping jacks–and you can accumulate vigorous activity multiple times throughout the day.” 

Exercise snacks are ideal for busy people. In our fast-paced lifestyle, it is challenging for many people to find the time to go to a gym and complete a formal workout. Exercise snacks offer an alternative way for busy folks to get their heart rate up and experience health benefits without changing their clothes or breaking a sweat.

Additionally, research shows that exercise snacks performed throughout the day may be more beneficial than a one-hour stint at the gym after sitting all day.

What Are Examples of Exercise Snacks?

If you have two minutes in your workday to get a snack from the refrigerator, you also have two minutes to do an exercise snack. Dr. Oppezzo explains, “Exercise snacks aren’t just a two-minute leisurely walk break. You’ll want the one-to-five-minute workout to elevate the heart rate to a point where it becomes hard to speak in complete sentences.”

Below are some examples of exercise snacks that Dr. Oppezzo recommends:

  • Instead of taking the elevator or walking up the stairs at work, jog up the flights.
  • Do 30 seconds of jumping jacks and 30 seconds of push-ups, repeating for two minutes while your food is warming up in the microwave.
  • Do one minute of burpees in the middle of your workday. If you cannot jump due to joint pain, here are instructions for walking-back burpees: put your hands on the back of a chair, step back, do a push-up, step forward, come to a squat and then reach for the sky. Repeat.
  • Do three minutes of the “Pet the Puppy” exercise. Instructions: stand up with feet hip-width distance, squat down, and pet an imaginary puppy; stand up, take a high knee step over the imaginary puppy with one leg followed by the other; squat down again and pet the puppy on the opposite side. Repeat petting and stepping (or jumping) over the puppy on the both sides.
  • High-knee march or jog in place, driving also with your arms, while your coffee is brewing.
  • Enjoy five minutes of Zumba on YouTube during your lunch break.

“With my clients, I’ve observed that becoming breathless with three or four exercise snacks throughout the day can sometimes be more stress-reducing than doing one longer workout and sitting the rest of the day,” says Dr. Oppezzo. “After raising your heart rate through exercise, your body has to kick into ‘calm down’ mode and exercise snacks give your body an opportunity to calm down multiple times throughout the day.”

Dr. Oppezzo is currently working on several exercise snack research studies. One is comparing breaks of walking and strength breaks throughout a sedentary day, and the other is helping identify the best ways to help people build exercise snacks as a habit.

Most people understand that many hours of sitting can be a health risk, but rather than focusing on total hours of sitting per day, Dr. Oppezzo recommends that we think about the number of hours we sit continuously without large muscle group movements. Therefore, she recommends a two-minute exercise snack every few hours of sitting. “We don’t know the optimal cadence of taking a break–every hour is easy to remember, but it’s not practical for many people,” says Dr. Oppezzo. “I would aim for taking a break every couple of hours, and try to make a few of your breaks heart-pumping exercise snacks.”

What Are the Benefits of Exercise Snacks?

Exercise snacks offer numerous health benefits, including improved cardiovascular health, muscular strength, and cognitive enhancement. This review article of several studies on exercise snacks showed significant benefits on cardiorespiratory fitness, including decreased total cholesterol, increased oxygen consumption, and overall cardiovascular function. A prospective cohort study, which follows and measures people over a long period of time without giving them a particular intervention, found that participants who self-reported three-to-four minute incidental (or non-intentional) short bursts of physical activity throughout the day had a 31 percent reduced risk in physical-activity related cancer incidence, especially in adults who did not regularly exercise.

“People think they have to go to the gym and kill themselves every day to get a health benefit. They think you need to ‘go big or go home,’ but the research shows that 60 seconds of vigorous movement still counts,” says Dr. Oppezzo. “We make exercise too complicated, but it doesn’t have to be. Rather than seeing exercise as an obligation or a chore, we can use exercise as a tool to manage stress and feel better. We can keep it simple with exercise snacks.”

By Maya Shetty, BS


Key Takeaways

  • Research shows that cold water immersion (CWI) may improve mental health by increasing endorphin and norepinephrine levels. 
  • CWI may also improve resilience to stress by decreasing cortisol levels.
  • CWI can be adapted to meet different wellness goals, whether for immediate relief or long-term mental health benefits.
    • For individuals seeking a quick boost in mood, daily cold water face immersions and occasional full-body plunges might be beneficial.
    • For those aiming for long-lasting benefits such as lowered cortisol levels, enhanced mood regulation, and increased resilience to stress, research shows that consistent full-body CWI may be beneficial.

Have you ever considered how taking a cold plunge might affect your mental state? Beyond the initial shock, CWI is proving to have profound effects on brain health and mental well-being. Initially popular as a recovery technique among athletes, it has now evolved into a bold wellness practice for those seeking to enhance their overall health. This practice, which involves plunging into cold water (roughly 10-15°C, 50-60°F), has ignited significant research interest, and emerging studies now suggest that CWI can improve mood, decrease stress, and potentially slow the progression of neurodegenerative diseases.

“I personally do cold water immersion and find it to be an immensely rejuvenating activity,” says Stanford Psychiatrist, Vanika Chawla, MD, member of the Lifestyle Medicine Cognitive Enhancement pillar.

CWI can take many forms, each involving its own protocol and equipment. The most common forms include:

  • Ice Baths: Traditionally utilized by athletes for recovery after intense physical activity, ice baths require submerging the body up to the neck in ice-cold water. Also known as cold plunging, this practice generally lasts only a few minutes and involves limited movement.
  • Cold Showers: A more accessible form of CWI, taking cold showers can offer many of the same benefits as ice baths but are easier to incorporate into daily routines.
  • Open Water Swimming: This active form of CWI involves swimming in cold rivers, lakes, or oceans, allowing for longer exposure times to the cold.
  • Cryotherapy Chambers: Though they do not involve water, cryotherapy chambers expose the body to extremely cold air temperatures for brief periods, stimulating a physiological response similar to that achieved through water immersion.

Choosing the type, temperature, and duration of CWI depends on your cold tolerance and the resources available to you. It is generally recommended to aim for a temperature that feels uncomfortable but still safe (no colder than 10°C, 50°F). If you have any form of access to cold water, whether it be a lake, a river, or your home shower and bathtub, you can participate in CWI and begin to explore its benefits.

Can Cold Water Plunges Improve Mental Health?

While the idea of diving into extremely  cold water seems unappealing to most, recent studies have shown that CWI offers emotional benefits. In 2021, researchers recruited undergraduate students to take a 20-minute dip in chilly sea water (13.6°C, 56.5°F) and report their emotions before and after using a Profile of Mood States questionnaire. Compared to controls, the students who engaged in CWI experienced a shift in mood, noting a significant decrease in negative emotions like tension, anger, depression, fatigue, and confusion. Moreover, they experienced boosts in positive emotions such as vigor and self-esteem. Further research involving thirty-three adults new to cold-water swimming highlighted similar benefits. After immersing in a cold bath (20°C, 68°F) for just five minutes, participants reported feeling more active, alert, attentive, proud, and inspired.

These studies, which utilize self-reported questionnaires, indicate that cold-water immersion may significantly enhance mood and overall psychological well-being. It appears to activate traits associated with increased motivation and vitality, while simultaneously diminishing feelings of distress and nervousness. 

How to Lower Cortisol Levels Naturally

CWI presents a unique stimulus for the body, prompting significant shifts in its hormonal stress response, particularly involving cortisol, a key regulator of stress. Unlike other stress hormones such as noradrenaline, cortisol levels remain relatively unchanged during the initial shock of cold water. Research highlights an intriguing aspect of cortisol dynamics: while levels do not significantly change during CWI, they significantly decrease afterward.

For example, a study concluded that a one-hour CWI session, whether in thermoneutral (32°C, 90°F), cooler (20°C, 68°F), or cold (14°C, 57°F) water, did not lead to an increase in blood cortisol concentrations. Instead, cortisol levels tended to decrease across all temperatures tested and remained below initial levels an hour after immersion. These findings suggest that cortisol production is not significantly activated by CWI, contrary to what might be expected under typical stress conditions. In fact, CWI may have potent stress-modulating effects. Further research indicates that cortisol levels remain considerably lower for up to three hours after just 15 minutes of CWI (10°C, 50°F). This pattern of response reveals a sophisticated regulatory mechanism, suggesting that CWI can effectively diminish feelings of stress following a session.

CWI may have the potential to modify our body’s stress response to stressors in everyday life. In a study where participants engaged in winter swimming (water 0-2°C, 32-36°F) for twenty seconds or cryotherapy (-110°C, -166°F) for two minutes, three times a week for twelve weeks, the body adapted remarkably. After just four weeks, participants showed significantly lower cortisol levels post-exposure, with levels continuing to drop in the following weeks. This adaptation contrasted with the noradrenaline response, which remained consistent even as the body became accustomed to the cold stress. This reduced cortisol response not only diminished the stress perceived from cold but also potentially enhanced the body’s capacity to manage other stressors more effectively. 

The main take away from this study is that by reducing cortisol production in response to repeated cold exposure, participants might also release less cortisol in response to other stressors in everyday life, thus fostering a more resilient physiological state over time.

“Resilience is the ability to adapt to life’s stressors and adversities,” says Dr. Chawla. “The body and mind are interconnected, therefore greater physiological resilience may lead to greater psychological resilience as well.”

How Cold Water Immersion Impacts the Brain

CWI has been scientifically observed to influence brain function, affecting mood, stress response, and potentially brain health through several mechanisms. The immediate physiological response triggered by CWI is largely due to the dramatic change in temperature. A dense concentration of cold receptors in the skin detects this change, leading to a surge of electrical impulses from peripheral nerve endings to the brain. This intense stimulation activates various neural pathways, initiating a cascade of chemical responses designed to help the body manage and adapt to the stressor.

During the initial shock of CWI, the body experiences stress and discomfort due to the sudden drop in temperature. To counteract this, endorphins, the body’s natural pain relievers, are released. These endorphins not only reduce pain but also enhance feelings of well-being, akin to the “runner’s high” that often occurs in other physically demanding or stressful situations. 

CWI also activates the sympathetic nervous system (SNS), which controls our “fight-or-flight” responses. This activation leads to a significant increase in noradrenaline (also known as norepinephrine), an excitatory neurotransmitter that not only helps manage stress but also boosts energy and focus. The surge in noradrenaline increases blood flow to the brain, potentially causing feelings of euphoria.

These two neurotransmitters play complementary roles. While norepinephrine prepares the body to handle acute stress by enhancing alertness and readiness, endorphins work to soothe pain and promote a positive mood. This dual response helps individuals cope with the immediate impacts of cold exposure more comfortably and can make the experience of cold water immersion more tolerable–and potentially even rewarding.

Regarding whether CWI has long-term positive effects on the brain, research indicates inconsistent results with respect to the increase of endorphin levels. It is possible that not everyone experiences this endorphin response to CWI, and among those who do, the effect may diminish over time, as the body becomes accustomed to the cold exposure. On the contrary, the increase in noradrenaline continues with each session of CWI, even after the body has adapted after months of regular practice. 

These findings underscore the potential of CWI to be used as a reliable tool for improving energy, focus, and mood. These findings also point to the potential of CWI to be used in the treatment of neurological conditions that involve low noradrenaline, including anxiety and depression. However, more research is needed to understand if CWI has long-term effects on emotional well-being outside the water.

Also, CWI may improve brain function through the release of cold-shock proteins, which are produced by the body in response to cold conditions. Animal studies reveal that proteins like RNA binding protein (RBM3) play a crucial role in repairing and regenerating nerve cell connections after they’ve been exposed to cold. Additionally, studies have demonstrated that over-expressing RBM3 can help prevent neuronal connection loss in mice with neurodegenerative diseases. Although there is limited evidence in humans, these findings in mice suggest that regular CWI could potentially boost the expression of such beneficial proteins in humans, offering protection against or slowing the progression of neurodegenerative diseases by preserving and reinforcing neural connections. 

Reaction to Cold Water: Full-Body vs. Facial Immersion

Physiological responses to CWI differ significantly based on whether the exposure is to the full body or just the face. Full-body immersion exposes a significant surface area to cold, inducing thermal stress that can substantially lower skin and core body temperatures. This extensive exposure activates the sympathetic nervous system, which in turn triggers a release of neurotransmitters and hormones that drive the stress response. Consequently, this leads to vasoconstriction, an increased heart rate, and a heightened metabolic rate, all of which help preserve body heat and maintain core temperature.

In contrast, immersing just the face in cold water activates parasympathetic activity, which is responsible for “rest and digest” functions in the body. This effect is likely due to the mammalian diving reflex—an evolutionary adaptation that optimizes respiration and conserves oxygen by preferentially directing oxygen to vital organs. The diving reflex is mediated by the vagus nerve, which activates the parasympathetic system and releases a sense of calm. The trigeminal nerve in the face also plays a crucial role when stimulated by cold, sending signals that further enhance parasympathetic output, decreasing heart rate, and boosting digestive activity. 

These differences highlight how CWI can be strategically used to target specific physiological responses and therapeutic outcomes, depending on whether the exposure is localized to the face or involves the entire body.

“I sometimes recommend facial cold water immersion to my patients as part of the T in TIPP skills to help people with emotion regulation. TIPP stands for temperature, intense exercise, progressive muscle relaxation, and paced breathing,” says Dr. Chawla. “These skills involve changing your body chemistry to shift emotions. Some people find brief facial immersion in cold water or taking a cold shower to be helpful in shifting their body chemistry and thereby shifting their emotional state.” 

Safety Considerations

CWI can offer several health benefits, but it’s essential to approach this practice with caution due to potential risks. One of the most obvious risks is hypothermia, as immersing in cold water significantly drops body temperature. To prevent hypothermia, limit immersion time to no more than 10 minutes

Furthermore, it is important to understand the cold shock response. Entering cold water suddenly can trigger an involuntary gasp reflex followed by hyperventilation. Hyperventilation increases the risk of drowning (especially in open water plunging) and can also lead to arrhythmias or even a heart attack, particularly in those with underlying heart issues. To better manage the cold shock response, it’s advised to enter the water slowly, allowing your body to adjust to the temperature gradually. 

It is also important to never swim alone regardless of your swimming strength or experience. Having a partner ensures that help is readily available in case of an emergency, such as cramps, sudden illness, or difficulty in the water.

Finally, remember to allow your body to gradually acclimatize to whatever CWI technique you choose. If you are a beginner, begin with shorter durations (2 minutes) in warmer water (roughly 20°C, 68°F), progressively moving to colder temperatures with longer durations as your body adapts.

“This intervention is not for everyone. It’s important for people to consider what works best for their individual needs,” says Chawla. “If you are going to try CWI, be mindful of how it impacts your mind and body and incorporate the activity into your routine accordingly.”

By Sharon Brock, MEd, MS

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Stanford Lifestyle Medicine’s nutrition experts, dietitians, and supplement researchers recommend getting nutrition from your food rather than a supplement as much as possible. For example, rather than drinking water with greens powder for lunch, eating a salad with a variety of vegetables is recommended to ensure that you’re getting the nutrition you need in a form that’s bioavailable (still useful) in the body.

“You can’t supplement your way out of a poor diet,” says Rachele Podjenic, PhD, Stanford nutrition and supplement researcher. “Even though fruits and vegetables are technically in many greens powders, since these whole foods are no longer in their original structure, we don’t really know if the nutrients are bioavailable once they are absorbed. There are a lot of claims being made, but almost no data to support them. In my opinion, greens powders are just a waste of money.”

If you’re eating healthy but want to be sure you’re covering all your nutritional bases, our experts recommend taking a multivitamin, and perhaps a couple other supplements (like vitamin D and B12) for healthy aging.  Dr. Podjenic says that it’s important that every supplement you take be third-party tested by organizations such as ConsumerLab, US Pharmacopeia, and NSF International. 

“We need to see supplements as a supplement in our already healthy diet, not as a substitute for eating well,” says Dr. Podjenic. “If you’re already eating healthy and a blood test shows you’re still deficient in a particular nutrient, that is where supplements come in.”

How do we get nutrition from our food?

Below is a graphic listing common supplements with their food equivalents. We aren’t suggesting you stop your supplements altogether (especially if your doctor or dietician recommends them), but to recognize that when we eat whole foods, we consume these nutrients in a more bioavailable form.

 

 

 

By Carly Smith, BS, MPH(c) 

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Making a bowl that has a mix of veggies, protein, grains, and fats can ensure you’re eating a meal that has balanced nutrition. While the specific ingredients can be changed to fit your personal preferences, below is the basic structure Nutrition Scientist Marily Oppezzo, PhD uses to create her own bowls:

1. Make your bowl half vegetables:

  • Either raw or cooked, make vegetables the base of your bowl. While the exact measurement will depend on the size of your bowl, you can aim for roughly 1 – 2 cups of veggies.

2. Add your preferred protein:

  • On top of your vegetables, add about ½ cup chicken, fish, tofu, or beans of choice.

3. Throw in some salad greens:

  • In addition to your vegetables, throw in about 2 – 3 cups of your favorite leafy greens. This is a great way to increase the volume of your bowl without losing control of the total amount of calories.

4. Be wary of dressings:

  • Limit dressings and vinaigrettes to only 2 – 3 tablespoons as the primary ingredient is often sugar. As an alternative to traditional dressing, try adding some salsa or a drizzle of olive oil with some lemon.

5. Personalize your bowl:

  • This is the fun part! You can control the flavor of your bowl by topping it with fresh herbs, fruit, whole grains, avocado, and/or a handful of nuts and seeds. You may also want to add a scoop of pickled veggies or 1-2 hard-boiled eggs.

With time, creating your favorite bowl mixtures will become intuitive. Until then, we have prepared a graphic that you can screenshot or print to help you plan your bowls.

How to Enter: “Make Your Own Balanced Bowl” Contest!

-> Create your own Balanced Bowl

-> Write the title of your bowl (which includes your name, like “Sharon’s Super Salmon Bowl”) on an index card

-> Take a birds-eye-view photo of your bowl and title

-> Post the photo to your Instagram and/or Facebook page or story

-> Tag your photo @StanfordLifestyleMedicine

(Alternatively, you may email the photo to lifestylemedicine@stanford.edu to enter the       contest)

-> We will feature all the bowls on our Instagram and Facebook stories and select the BEST BOWL during the week leading up to the Super Bowl!

 

By Carly Smith, BS, MPH(c) 

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Spiritual practices do not have to take place in a church; therefore, every person lives with spirituality in some way. Individuals connect to their spirits and create meaning through various activities, including religious rituals, but also through music, art, or exercise. 

“Spirituality, broadly, is the way that we find purpose, connection, belonging, and dignity as human beings,” says Bruce Feldstein, MD, BCC, Stanford Lifestyle Medicine Head of Gratitude and Reflection. “People find it in various ways–it’s not important where you find it; what’s important is just to get started looking for it.” 

Dr. Feldstein is a board-certified chaplain at Stanford, where he directs Jewish Chaplaincy Services serving Stanford Medicine and an Adjunct Clinical Professor in the School of Medicine. He sees spirituality as the critical element missing from most lessons on healthy aging from elementary to medical school. His experiences as an Emergency Medicine Physician turned Clinical Chaplain inspired him to create the Spiritual Fitness ToolKit, which helps individuals cultivate well-being by exploring rituals for meaning, purpose, and connection.

 “A spiritual practice is as essential to cultivating well-being as physical fitness or nutrition. However, our ‘spiritual fitness’ is typically not discussed as concretely as these other aspects of health,” says Dr. Feldstein. 

Four Questions a Day Exercise

The Spiritual Fitness ToolKit opens with a reflection exercise titled “Four Questions a Day.” To develop habits of gratitude and reflection, Dr. Feldstein recommends spending ten minutes of quiet time at the end of the day to contemplate these four questions, one at a time. 

     The Four Questions:

1. What surprised me today?

2. What touched me today?

3. What inspired me today?

4. For what am I grateful?

Start by asking yourself the first question, What surprised me today? Reflect backward on your day until you come to the first thing that surprised you. Make a note of it in a little journal or on a file on your smartphone. It’s important to write it down. Then do the same with the other questions, one at a time. (This exercise is drawn from research on gratitude and from the teachings of Rachel Naomi Remen MD, originator of the Healer’s Art course.)

After a few weeks of practice, you may begin thinking about these questions throughout your day. Eventually, you may find yourself noticing moments of surprise, being touched, inspiration, and gratitude as they occur. This heightened awareness can allow you to see and respond to  situations in your life with “new eyes,” and bring elements of emotional well-being into your everyday experience.

“The Four Questions exercise could be essential in two ways for people getting started,” says Dr. Feldstein. “It can help develop a capacity for increased emotional awareness and encourage people to become reflective practitioners in action.”

Dr. Feldstein suggests committing to this practice for at least three weeks to develop a new habit, and for 90 days to create a new lifestyle. He also suggests engaging in the daily writing activity with a friend to promote connection and enjoyment.

Sharing Moments of Gratitude

An extension of the Four Questions practice is Sharing Moments of Gratitude, another valuable practice  in the Spiritual Fitness Toolkit .

Feeling gratitude within oneself is one part of the experience. When we feel grateful for something wonderful in our lives, we can share our appreciation of others by saying or doing something for someone else. Doing so expands the experience of gratitude to those around us.

Sharing gratitude can be done in many ways. Most simply, we can say, “I really appreciate what you just did. Thank you so much.” This is most powerful and the positive experience is mutual and immediate. We may also send a thank you note, or offer a small gift. 

One of Dr. Feldstein’s favorite practices is to produce small moments for gratitude at the end of each conversation, discussion, or meeting.

“I often ask my patients or people I am with ‘What can I wish for you today?’ I listen with openness, take in what they say, then respond genuinely with an open heart. This is a practice for offering a blessing. It is one that produces mutual gratitude,” says Dr. Feldstein. “It is a simple practice you can incorporate into any conversation or interaction and greatly encourages connection, healing, and finding peace.”

So, dear reader, what can the Stanford Lifestyle Medicine team wish for you today?