By Sharon Brock, MS, MEd

Mature woman lifting pelvis off exercise mat

For most women, discussions about the pelvic floor are typically tinged with embarrassment. When our pelvic floor muscles (which form a hammock-shaped barrier across the base of the pelvis) are compromised, we can experience a variety of taboo-laden symptoms such as incontinence, constipation, and painful sex. Even though pelvic floor disorders affect twenty percent of women in the U.S. (and more than half of women over 80), many suffer in silence because they are too embarrassed to speak about them, even to their healthcare providers.

“It’s time for us to normalize the discussion,” says Brooke Gurland, MD, FACS, colorectal surgeon and member of the Stanford Medicine Pelvic Health Center. “We don’t talk enough about what happens to women in middle age and beyond. But just like menopause, we need to have more discussions about pelvic floor health with middle-aged women so they can potentially prevent incontinence in their advanced years.”

What is the Pelvic Floor?

Pelvic floor muscles act as a sling that holds the organs within the pelvis in place so they can function correctly. A woman’s pelvis includes organs that serve urinary (the urethra and bladder), reproductive (the vagina and uterus), and digestive (the rectum and intestines) functions.

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Pelvic floor disorders (PFDs) occur when pelvic floor muscles and connective tissue are too weak, too tight, or don’t have the coordination to facilitate proper functioning of the pelvic organs. The most common PFDs are urinary incontinence, fecal incontinence, and pelvic organ prolapse (when a pelvic organ drops from its original position).

When Pelvic Floor Muscles are Too Weak

During menopause, women’s estrogen levels begin to decline, resulting in the reduction of muscle mass and decreased capacity for muscle to adapt and recover from strenuous exercise. Also, as we age, we often experience sarcopenia, a decline in muscle mass and function. Women between the ages of 40 and 70 typically lose approximately 25 percent of their peak muscle mass. At 75, a dramatic decline often results in the loss of around 60 percent of peak muscle strength and 30 percent of physical function.

“We need to remember that we are not just losing muscle mass in our arms and legs; our pelvic floor muscles also weaken with age,” says Dr. Gurland. “Just as we need to lift weights in midlife to stay strong and mobile as we age, we also need pelvic floor strengthening activities to potentially prevent PFDs in the future.”

Dr. Gurland’s recommendations for strengthening pelvic floor muscles to reduce incontinence:

  • Physical Exercise – Regularly practice Kegel exercises or other exercises that strengthen the pelvic floor, such as Pilates. To perform a Kegel exercise, contract the muscles you use to stop the flow of urine, the muscles of the perineum (located between the vulva and anus), and the muscles around the anus. “The great thing about Kegels is that you can do them while working at your desk, and no one knows you’re doing them,” says Dr. Gurland. “If you’re having trouble identifying the pelvic floor muscles, I recommend putting a rolled-up washcloth underneath the perineum while sitting in a chair and then tightening and pulling up from there.”
  • Nutrition – Get enough fiber, whole grains, leafy greens and protein to support a well-balanced diet and benefit overall muscle mass.

Along with age-related strength decline of the pelvic floor muscles, childbirth can also cause weakening. Dr. Gurland shares that in France, pelvic floor physiotherapy is part of post-partum care; however, in the US, that care is not standard and pelvic floor care isn’t addressed until after the patient has a problem.

“I want to send the message that we can be proactive about our pelvic floor health and not wait until something goes wrong,” says Dr. Gurland. “PFDs are more common than you think, and you should talk to your provider about what you can do now to reduce their severity as you age and improve the quality of your life into your 80s and 90s.”

When Pelvic Floor Muscles are Too Tight

Although we don’t want our pelvic floor muscles to be weak, we can also experience PFDs when they are too tight. Symptoms of tight pelvic floor muscles include constipation or difficulty emptying the bowels, anal fissure and hemorrhoids, difficulty urinating and painful sex. Chronic stress and trauma can contribute to the pelvic floor muscles being too tight

“People tend to know about strengthening the pelvic floor, but many don’t understand that it’s equally important to relax the pelvic floor muscles to urinate and defecate properly,” says Dr. Gurland. “For example, some people can’t go to the bathroom in public. They feel too anxious, which causes the muscles to tighten up. There’s a mind-body connection. When we are too stressed in the mind, we aren’t able to relax the pelvic floor muscles in the body.”

Dr. Gurland’s recommendations for relaxing pelvic floor muscles and relieving constipation:

  • Stress Reduction – Take deep breaths and visualize breathing into your pelvic floor to relax these muscles before going to the bathroom. Try a full body scan.
  • Elevate Feet – When sitting on the toilet, putting the feet onto blocks or a toilet stool can relax the rectal muscles so you can defecate without straining. “You want to avoid straining to prevent hemorrhoids and prolapse,” says Dr. Gurland.
  • Toileting Time – Carve out time in the morning to relax the body and defecate before starting your workday. “I recommend waking up an hour earlier, having a glass of water, and relaxing so your body can go to the bathroom. If you’re waking up last minute and running out the door, your body doesn’t always comply,” says Dr. Gurland.
  • Nutrition – Drink adequate water daily and consume enough fiber in your diet.

What is Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy?

Regarding our pelvic floor, we can take a cue from Goldilocks. We don’t want them too weak or too tight, so how do we get them “just right”?

“When we talk about pelvic floor health, we consider not only the tightness and weakness but also the coordination of the pelvic floor muscles,” says Dr. Gurland. “For proper rectal functioning, the muscles must be coordinated enough to ‘hold it’ until you’re in the right place, then relax when the time is right.”

Unfortunately, many common things can lead to a loss of coordination of the pelvic floor muscles, such as nerve damage caused by chronic straining, childbirth injuries, back surgery, and radiation.

To help patients have more pliable and coordinated pelvic floor muscles, or that “just right” level of competence in their bladder, bowel, or sexual functioning, Dr. Gurland refers them to a Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist who offers exercises to strengthen, relax, and retrain their pelvic floor muscles to contract properly. This therapy is also recommended for pregnant and postpartum women.

“It is important for the provider and patient to have a good relationship because the work is very personal,” says Julia Barten, DPT, Pelvic Rehabilitation Practitioner at the Stanford Pelvic Health Center. “It may take a few sessions to fully figure out proper control or coordination for pelvic floor muscles and sometimes multiple techniques are required to find the best treatment plan. It helps when there is good communication and the patient has an open mind to treatment recommendations, however, if a patient is not comfortable with a recommendation, it is always best to speak up so that the therapist can modify the program to something that is effective for the individual.”

Pelvic Floor Exercises

1) To strengthen pelvic floor muscles (to prevent incontinence, organ prolapse):

Before starting the exercise, Barten emphasizes the importance of isolating the pelvic floor from other muscles (such as abdominal or gluteal) when building strength. She recommends practicing long holds as well as quick squeezes to address endurance, coordination, and flexibility. Even with quick squeezes, she stresses the importance of full relaxation between each squeeze.

“Pelvic floor strengthening is more than just squeezes. To strengthen the muscles effectively, they must contract and relax within a full range of motion,” says Barten.  “Complete relaxation between each contraction is necessary to effectively build strength.”

Barten recommends these videos for pelvic floor strengthening:

2) To relax pelvic floor muscles (to relieve constipation, painful sex):

“Pelvic floor relaxation can be very difficult to sense,” says Barten. “There are ways to gently stretch your pelvic floor with breath and yoga stretches. It is also possible to gently drop the pelvic floor or bear down to actively lengthen the muscles.”

Barten recommends these videos for pelvic floor lengthening and relaxing:

3) To increase coordination of pelvic floor muscles (to improve incontinence):

Barten says that coordination of pelvic floor muscles is best assessed with an exam and individualized recommendations, but home biofeedback devices (i.e. Kegel exercisers or trainers) can also be helpful. These devices can be purchased over the counter and inserted vaginally to improve a woman’s awareness and control over her pelvic floor muscles.

Lastly, Barten is passionate about breaking the stigma of talking about pelvic floor issues and enjoys creating musical videos to spread awareness about the pelvic floor and bring some humor to the topic. Here she sings about “The Kegel Routine” while parodying a song from the musical Hamilton.

By Yasaman Nourkhalaj, BS and Sharon Brock, MS, MEd

Mature woman using pink free weights

If you’re in your 50s, you might have noticed that simple tasks like getting up from the floor or cleaning the bathroom aren’t as easy as they used to be. For decades, women have been bombarded with messages about getting thinner. But around the age of 50, the focus should shift from losing weight to gaining strength. Building muscle isn’t just about looking strong – it’s about living strong and extending your longevity.

The Link Between Age and Muscle Mass

Starting around age 30, muscle mass begins to decline at a rate of about .5 percent per year. When we reach age 50, that rate increases to 1 to 2 percent per year, then increases again to roughly 3 percent per year starting at age 60. This attrition of muscle mass is especially critical for women because estrogen plays a key role in muscle and bone health. The reduction of estrogen levels during perimenopause and menopause accelerates the onset of sarcopenia (age-related loss of muscle mass) and osteoporosis making strength training even more essential as women age for long-term health.

The head of Stanford Lifestyle Medicine Healthful Nutrition pillar, exercise and nutrition scientist, and health researcher Marily Oppezzo, PhD, explains why strength training is essential for women over 50.

“An important thing we can do for our longevity is strength train. And that is true for every age—even if you start training at age 102,” says Dr. Oppezzo. “During menopause, declining estrogen levels directly impact muscle maintenance and development. This natural process can accelerate muscle loss–but here’s the good news: strength training can certainly help combat these changes.”

5 Strength Training Movements for Women 50+

According to Dr. Oppezzo, an effective strength training program should include exercises that have these fundamental movements:

  1. Push movements to strengthen the chest (example exercises: wall push-ups, push-ups with knees on the floor, chest presses with weights)
  2. Pull movements to strengthen the back (example exercises: resistance band rows, rowing machine)
  3. Squat movements to improve ability to sit and stand (example exercises: chair squats — option to wear a backpack with a bottle of water for increased weight)
  4. Hinge movements to protect your back during daily activities (example exercises: hip bridges, dead lifts with weights)
  5. Single-leg movements to equalize strength in both legs (example exercises: step-ups onto a raised platform, single-leg sit-and-stand from a chair)

Sample Strength Training Routine for Women 50+

Here is a sample strength training routine recommended by Dr. Oppezzo for women over 50 to be performed two to three times per week:

  1. Chest Press: While lying on a bench hold your dumbbells in both hands with bent elbows, and push weights straight up toward the ceiling. 3 sets, 8 repetitions.
  2. Resistance Band Row: Wrap a light-medium resistance band around a pole or your feet. Sit on the ground and pull back the bands in a rowing motion, keeping elbows close to the body and hands at the waist, squeezing the back muscles together. 3 sets, 8 repetitions.
  3. Chair Squats: Bring hands together at your chest and slowly sit into a chair with a neutral spine (don’t arch or round) and strong core. Touch your butt to the seat bottom, but do not sit all the way into the chair. Stand back up again. 3 sets, 8 repetitions.
  4. Deadlift: Stand with feet hip width apart. Hinging at the hips with a slight bend in the knee, and keep your back straight, shoulders neutral (not rounded or excessively arched). Engage your core. Slide the weights down the line of your thighs and legs only as far as you can go without rounding your back.  Slowly exhale as you stand up. The power to stand up comes from driving your hips forward. Keep your weights close to your body the whole time. You can practice this by rolling a foam roller down your legs with your hands to practice good form. 3 sets, 8 repetitions.
  5. Step-ups: Set up a 1-foot-high platform (using a box or stairs) and step onto the platform with one leg and lower the body slowly. 3 sets, 8 repetitions.

*Dr. Oppezzo recommends that you perform the exercises without weights first to master proper form.

How to Get the Most Out of Your Strength Training Routine

How many reps you should do:

“Reps in reserve” is a way to estimate how close you are to your max effort. Once you learn the moves, you will want to train so your sets leave you with “2 reps in reserve”, meaning you stopped feeling like you could do 2 more repetitions in good form, but that’s it.

How to choose your weights:

  1. Start Light. Begin with a weight that feels easy. Use the first set to warm up and estimate what you will use for the exercise.
  2. Gradually increase the weight until you can do 8 and 10 repetitions with good form but high effort.
  3. Check in with yourself:  If after you’re done, you could have done more than 2 repetitions in good form, increase the weight. But,  if after you’re done, you could NOT have done 2 more repetitions, it may be too heavy. The sweet spot is: if after you’re done, you could have done just 2 more repetitions with good form, you’ve got the right weight for you right now.

“To get stronger, you need to slightly increase the difficulty of the exercises each time you do your workout,” says Dr. Oppezzo. “You’re not going to get stronger if you do the same thing every time.”

How to gradually increase the difficulty of the exercises over time:

  • Increase the weight (e.g., When the 5-pound weights become too easy, increase the weight to 8 pounds, then 10 pounds, and so on).
  • Add an extra set of the exercise (e.g., Rather than only 3 sets, add a fourth).
  • Increase the number of repetitions (e.g., When 8 reps become too easy, increase to 10 reps, and then progress to 12. When you’re able to do 12 reps without too much effort, it’s time to increase the weight).
  • Slow down the tempo for each rep, especially on the “eccentric” or lengthening part of the movement.

“Be sure to wait 24 hours between strength training sessions to prevent injury and allow for muscle repair and recovery,” says Dr. Oppezzo. “Don’t do heavy strength training of the same muscle group on back-to-back days.”

The Importance of Protein to Build Strength

Proper nutrition is crucial for muscle development, particularly adequate protein intake. When we are strength training, our bodies need the raw material that protein provides to build muscle mass. Research shows that adults should aim to consume 1.2 to 1.6 grams of protein per kilogram of body weight, which translates to roughly 80 to 100 grams per day. Protein can come from both animal and plant-based sources, and Dr. Oppezzo recommends consuming protein throughout the day rather than having just one high-protein meal.

“Building muscle effectively requires both consistent strength training and adequate protein consumption,” says Dr. Oppezzo. “In order hit that 80 to 100 grams per day mark, we should try to consume 20 to 30 grams of protein at every meal.”

Strength Training for Longevity

Strength training isn’t just about lifting weights, it’s about lifting your quality of life. Whether you want to keep up with grandchildren, maintain independence, or simply feel stronger in your daily activities, it’s never too late to start. “If starting a weight training regime feels overwhelming, start with ‘strength snacks,’ which are short bursts of exercise throughout the day. Start small and focus on consistency over intensity, and track improvements in daily activities rather than just numbers on weights,” says Dr. Oppezzo.

“Start where you are, use what you have, and celebrate every small victory along the way. Your future self will thank you for the strength you build today,” says Dr. Oppezzo.